Tuesday, December 17, 2013

12/08/13 Letter #37

Let it snow! Let it snow! Let it snow!

Ok, so I know all you back in California are complaining about the cold weather, but let me tell ya...out here it is REALLY cold. Yesterday we got into the car, it was -2 degrees and our back doors were frozen shut. Probably, not common to see your breath in the car. It's been chilly these last couple of weeks, but Friday night we had a good snow fall and woke up to about 4 1/2 inches of beautiful white powder. Sister Manes (my new companion) and I were loving it, even though it is a lot more work in the mornings. Ok, sorry I was just so excited about the snow, I'll get back to what's been happening this week. 

So awesome week! Tuesday I picked up my new companion, Sister Maness. She is from SOUTHERN California - Riverside county (Everyone keeps joking..."another Californian?). We get quite a few Cali missionaries in our mission (that and Arizona and Nevada). She is 22 and has also finished her schooling. We are very much alike in more ways than one (appearance, personality, reasons for out on a mission...). It was neat because as we were sitting waiting to hear our new companion assignments, she and I were sitting next to each other and we both had the thought pass through our minds that we hoped we would be companions. The poor thing got welcomed to Idaho with cold and snow, but she is a trooper. 

We began our week with another lesson with Miary. She is doing wonderful! We taught her about the gospel of Jesus Christ and she continued to soak everything in. At the end she asked us if she could bear her testimony to us. I love it! She has had so many thing prepare for this and it's incredible to see her strength. We moved her baptism to the following week because there are a lot of things happening with the holidays in the ward this weekend, so we wanted to make sure the day wasn't too stressful. This helps in a lot of ways actually. I have never had a baptism for someone who doesn't speak English so we just want to make sure we're getting everything done correctly. 

Every day this week, we have had some awesome visits and getting in a lot of doors that aren't always consistent! Heavenly Father is really blessing us with opportunities and I'm glad that Sister Maness is getting to exerience so much success. If she came 6 weeks ago, I don't know if I could have promised her the same, but Sister Archuleta and I were able to work hard and really build this area so that we can have so many opportunitites to teach and testify. 

Thursday night, the Atwood's took us out to dinner for my birthday celebration. We went to a restaurant called GoodWood and I had an awesome prime rib! I think the cow was still mooing, but gotta have it medium rare ;) It was really nice of them though to take me out and help me feel special. Later we tried to do some contacting, but no one seemed to be home (guess there were some school choir performances going on). We stopped by the Slade's who are an older couple in one of our wards. The lights weren't on so we were thinking we were out of luck there too, but we decided to still knock, and they were home. Sister Slade has had some back troubles and was recovering, but she was SO grateful that we stopped by. She said she had been feeling lonely and that no one would visit her. I was so grateful we listened to the spirit and were able to spend some time and share some spiritual messages with her. Our purpose as missionaries is to invite ALL to come unto Christ, whether  they are members or the church or not, active or not. We then stopped by Lonny Cooper's who we hadn't seen in a little while. We shared a mormon message called "Heavenly Father, Earthly Father" and talked about the important role he plays, even as a single parent. He expressed to us how he has had quite a few missionaries come and try to reactivate him, but how we sisters have made a difference with him and he thanked us for that. I feel that every day, I am realizing why I am here and how the Lord prepares people for us and we for them. 

Friday was another incredible day. We started it off teaching Miary again, this time about the commandments. After District Meeting, we made a few more visits (this is when the light snow fall started). That evening we went to see a couple less actives. One of them was Brenda Kiser, whom we had seen occasionally before. She is a rough-tough kinda gal that is a hard worker and sounds like Reba McIntire. She's awesome. She is divorced and her 13-year old son lives with her, Kent. He is a funny kid. He is REALLY into history, especially German history and loves his German action figures. He is not a member and with his father's influence, won't have permission until he's 18. He likes to talk and challenge you a lot. This was actually the first time I had met him, but had heard these things from his mom a lot before. It was kind of fun talking to him as he questioned the things we believe (asking for "proof" about the Book of Mormon and where these people descend from). It was a great opportunity for Sister Maness and I to seek guidance from the spirit and bear our testimonies. For the most part we explained that we didn't need the proof, but that it was something we had prayed about and as we studied the doctrine, had it confirmed that these things are true. I asked him if he believed in God. He said yes, and then I asked how did he know he is real. He said, "I don't know, I just do. I can sense His presence". I said it's the same for everything else we believe. We may not have physical proof to hold, but the faith that we have and the feelings confirmed to us can help us know of the truth. Even Brenda shared that she knew these things were true too. At the end after we shared a message and a prayer, he turned to us and said he actually agreed with everything we shared, but just wanted to make sure we believed what we said. We told him we wouldn't be out here if we didn't! He liked it and said we were welcomed back any time. Glad we got his approval ;) It was a great visit and night though!

Saturday was the snow day. We went to one of our ward's Christmas breakfasts. The night before we made a gingerbread house for the competition. We decided to be creative and made it into a temple (not anyone in particular), all frosted white with a Captain Moroni made of banana and grape runts spray-painted gold :) We showed up a little late so we didn't get judged, but everyone loved it. After, we went back and helped Brother Rowe shovel the snow in our driveway. Later, we got to go to my old area to see a baptism for Brittany, who Sister Chen and I had started teaching 6 months ago. She and her family have now moved to Nampa, but she wanted to be baptized where she had been taught and had first attended. The baptism was beautiful and it was so good to see her. I couldn't help  fight back the tears. Even though her progression wasn't as quick as others, to see her make this step and covenant was so beautiful. She asked me to share a few words and I testified about the hymn "I Believe in Christ". I am grateful for the variety of opportunities I am given. I know I will probably never see Brittany or her family again (now that they live out of the mission boundaries), but I am grateful to have been a part of their life. 

I am so grateful for this experience I have to serve the Lord. My faith and my testimony in this gospel and in my Savior have grown immensely. I am just hitting my half way mark and it has been wonderful to see the growth that I have experienced thus far. As I ponder on the next half of my mission, I look forward with excitement to see what more can happen. Since I have been out, the mission has split into 3 missions, the new mission has grown by 70% and I have had many training and leadership responsibilities. But most importantly, I have come closer to Christ and I have helped many others do the same. This gospel is true. I wouldn't be here doing this if it wasn't. Our Savior lives and He is with us every step of the way. We just have to reach out to Him. The Book of Mormon is true. It is keystone of our religion and holds the evidence that Jesus is the Christ and that God speaks to us today as He has revealed and restored the fullness of Christ's gospel through a prophet, Joseph Smith. I know that we continue to receive revelation from a modern prophet, Thomas S. Monson and that he leads and guides as a Church. I know that our Heavenly Father hears us and answers our prayers and that we too continue to receive personal revelation from Him. 

I love you all. Stay warm and stay grateful. 

Love,
Sister Wightman

Monday, December 9, 2013

11/18/13 Photos

 Our district at the Boise temple after our session

At Red Robin with the Simmons for Sister Archuleta's 20th birthday

Kelly and I making our pies (I still haven't baked mine yet...freezing it till Thanksgiving)

Taxidermy, of course this is common here in Idaho

Sister Archuleta and I posing in front of our CLEAN car after getting the "clean car"award at Zone Conference


12/02/13 photos

 Thanksgiving dinner #2 with the Atwood's

Thanksgiving dinner #3 with the Bartholomew's 

In front of our subdivision. So funny to live in the "Celestial Village"

 Proselyting on the bike (took a couple days to recover)

 Bowling with our Zone last p-day


Thanksgiving dinner #1 with the Miner's


12/02/13 Letter #36

Hello everyone!

Well, I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving. My day was stuffed (pun intended)! We had 3 dinners to attend. We started off with the Miners who have so much family come that they use the church to host everyone. It was a good sized turnout, which isn't really my cup-of-tea (I'm used to our smaller intimate family get-togethers), but still lots of fun. We played some basketball for a little bit, but I quit because my misses kept ricocheting and hitting a kid in the head and I felt bad and didn't want a law suit. Haha just kidding. But seriously. Then we went to the Atwoods. I LOVE this family. They had about 20 people there too, but it was at their home so more intimate. Our third dinner was at the Bartholomew's. We felt bad because we were so full by the time we got there, but still had enough room to have a little bit of everything and to try the apple pie I had made. Not bad for a first-timer. Maybe more sugar next time though haha. Although it can be hard being away from family during the holidays, it was wonderful to be welcomed in by so many families. I've already gotten requests for Christmas!

This has been an absolutely wonderful week. It started off Monday night as we had a lesson with Miary (from Madagascar). We taught her about the Restoration of the gospel of Jesus Christ and she soaked everything in. Her daughter translated for us and it was just a humbling experience. She explained that she had already prayed to know which church was true and felt her answers was the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. At the end, we invited her to be baptized on December 14th and she accepted! We were all in tears and her daughter shared that this was something she had been waiting for for a long time. We came back the next couple of mornings to teach her about the Plan of Salvation and she just wants us to keep coming back every day and learn more! This is what it's all about!

So we are allotted a certain amount of miles each month with our cars and with all the meetings and exchanges we've had, we ran out of our miles about a week early! We were blessed to have some members drive us around, but it was probably the worst week to run out because of Thanksgiving. Either people were out of town or they had family in town. So Wednesday, we ended up borrowing some bikes and getting around the traditional missionary way. May I just say that I have such an appreciation for the elders that have to ride their bikes. Our area is huge and there are so hills, that on a bike are more like mountains, so we stayed down in the "valley", but whooo! what a day! We still had fun though :)

Today is transfers and I am staying here in Star. This will be my longest time serving in one area, but I'm so glad. I wasn't ready to go. Things are just getting going and I still feel really connected to these people. Sister Archuleta was transferred down to Meridian South and is finishing training another sister. I'm grateful for the time I had to serve with her. I learned a lot. I will be picking up my brand new missionary tomorrow night, so don't know who it is yet. That's always the nail-biting part. But I know I will love her as I have with all my companions. It will be a different way of celebrating my birthday, but when you're on the Lord's errand, those things just don't seem as important or big of a deal. Some of the members though have asked to take me out later this week for a birthday celebration, so that will be nice. Can't believe it's the big 2-5. So old. Haha. 

I am excited for the new transfer and many exciting things that will happen these next couple of months. Thank you all for your continual love and support. It means the world to me. God bless you all and I hope you all feel the Spirit of CHRISTmas this season :)

Love,
Lauren 

11/25/13 Photos

 Dinner with some members (The Bruneels - family of 10!)
After a lesson with one of our investigators, Mary Jo (left to right: Sis. Archuleta, Mary Jo, Jessie, and me)

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11/25/13 Letter #35

It's the most wonderful time of the yeeeeeeaaaaar! Or at least it's getting there! haha. 

It is definitely winter here now as our car is iced over every morning, the pond in our backyard is almost ice-skating worthy, and we constantly are seeing our breath in the air. Grateful for pea coats and boots ;)

It has been a great week. We have begun teaching a sister from Madagascar. She only speaks Malagasy and her daughter and son-in-law are able to translate for us. She just moved here a month ago to live with her daughter and has a desire to be baptized. That's what we like to hear! She is so sweet and already has such a strong testimony. It is such a testimony builder to me and helps me to really slow down and appreciate the simple things. We were supposed to teach her last night, but had to reschedule for tonight and hope to extend a baptismal invitation. I love all these international experiences I am getting!

Wednesday, we got to take Kelly to the Family History center in Eagle and help her get started on doing her family's work. She is the first member of the Church in her family and has not had anyone do any genealogy work yet so she is starting from scratch, but the people at the FHC were so helpful and she found 3 family members! I have grown such an appreciation for family history work. Not only is it fun to find about our ancestors and where they come from, but to be able to do temple work for them, to link those bonds and give them the opportunity to accept the gospel so our families can be eternal. Familysearch.org is such a wonderful site and continues to show all the great resources our church has, holding one the largest genealogical database in the world! I'm excited to go back and help Kelly find more. My companion is still trying to figure out if she's indeed related to David Archuleta. 

Thursday I had a trainers meeting at the mission office that was for all senior companions. We discussed how we can be more effective in finding those "elect" that are prepared to receive the gospel. There was an emphasis on talking to everyone and using things like Family History to connect to people as most people want to know more about their family. It was definitely inspired. We then got to go on exchanges and I was with Sister Houseman, back in my last area in Meridian! I guess my work is just not finished there cuz they keep sending me back haha. It was so fun though to work with Sister Houseman (she was companions with Sister Chen after I was) and to see people I had worked with before. We tried applying the things we had been taught, but had pretty much no success during the day as everyone wasn't at home. I got to see Erika again and although I keep in touch with her weekly through email, it was great to see her face and hear how she is doing as she continues to progress in the gospel. That night, we had the privilege of having our mission president's wife, Sister Winder, go out with us. We contacted a couple of families. The first were the Johnson's, who claim they're active, but don't go to church. The husband is a lieutenant and his wife is a nurse, so I'm sure their crazy schedules play a factor. It was perfect timing as they were packing up to head down to Utah for Thanksgiving week. They took the time though to have us come in and get to know them, hear Brother Johnson's conversion story and then share a message. As we left, Brother Johnson shook my hand and thanked us for our visit and message as it set the tune for their trip. That's the first time missionaries have been able to make full contact in at least 6 months with that family. We then went to see the Curries who always made us fresh homemade bread. It was great to see them again and to see how much their son has improved as he is recovering from some health issues. We talked about the Prodigal son and discussed the different views, from the son who left and the son who stayed and remained obedient. Although we may go on different paths, Heavenly Father continues to bless us and be there for us, whether we've always had it or we are coming back to it. I was so grateful to have Sister Winder with us. I thought it might be scary/more pressure, but she was just another part of our companionship. 

Saturday, I got to teach Sister Archuleta the things that I had learned in the training, and then we set goals and took it to action. We decided we were going to talk to everyone we saw. It can be hard, being in a car, but we wanted to allow for extra time so if we saw someone we could pull over and talk to them. We have actually been short on our miles for our car so we had Kelly drive us around. It was fun for her to get to see what we do. It was amazing. Everyone we tried to see, we saw! And we even had an opportunity to talk to someone that wasn't part of our planned contacting. He was a neighbor of a sister we were trying to visit and was unloading his car full of groceries. We offered to help and as we walked with him, he began to share about his beliefs and how we have different religious views. I was a little nervous as the conversation began (I'm grateful we're not really a tracting mission because these situations are not my favorite) and I didn't want it to become a competition. He asked for clarification on what we believed about the Godhead and how the Atonement works and where we will go after this life. We were able to bear our testimony of the Plan of Salvation and share some scriptures in the Bible that showed why we believed these things. He wasn't convinced, but I knew that as long as I was bearing my testimony, I was doing my part and he had his agency to take or leave it. In the end, he appreciated our help in taking in the groceries and we went on our way. Successful? Some may say no, but I know that I was able to at least testify of what I knew was true :) We had the most success that day than we've had probably since we've been serving in this area (almost 3 months)!

Yesterday, we got to perform our musical number again in the other ward and also in the ward choir. It is so fun to use our musical talents. In the Beacon Light ward there was a guy who was giving his mission homecoming talk. He had just gotten back from Brazil. He did a great job, but then at the end, he did something unexpected. He had Sister Archuleta and I go up to the podium with him and talked to the congregation about what our responsibilities are and we can't do it on our own, and then he had the whole congregation stand up and said that we are all part of the God's Army and that we are all a part of this work. It was so powerful! I think everyone was moved.

Transfers are coming up this next week, and although I am nervous to hear what happens, I'm also at peace that I will be where the Lord needs me. I don't think I'm done here in Star, but I'm grateful for all the experiences I've had here and the people I've met. I know I've made a difference as I've shared my testimony and served the people here. This is a GREAT area! 

Thank you for all your love. I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving and enjoy these times with your family and loved ones!

Love,
Sister Wightman