Monday, December 30, 2013

photos 12/30/13

after opening all my gifts Christmas morning

With Brad after his temple session

Sister Maness and I singing "Silent Night"


Letter #40 12/30/13

Well, I hope everyone had a Merry Christmas! I really enjoyed talking with my family. So good to hear their voices :)

Christmas Eve we got to spend with some members. We went with the Atwoods over to the Wambolt's (a part-member family) and had a feast of a dinner! It was so fun to be around all these families and join in their family traditions. At the end, Sister Maness and I harmonized in Silent Night a Capella. There was a wonderful spirit in the room. Christmas, we went to about 5 families homes throughout the day, from breakfast to dinner. My favorite though was at the Moomey's. They had invited a mother and son who are refugees from the Congo. They are so sweet and it was very touching to listen to the mom share all that she's been through. She had never heard of our church and shared that she had gone to the Jehovah Witness church back in the Congo. The Moomey's are actually from the Bay Area and had a picture of the Oakland temple so I shared that with her and talked to her about temples. She asked if there was any in Africa and I told her how they had actually just announced one being built in the Congo! She seemed excited. We had a wonderful dinner and got to share with them American traditions. The next day, we got a call from Brother Moomey saying she wanted to have the missionaries come by. Although they are not in our area, I was so happy to hear that wanted to learn more! You never know the impact of what you say can have on others! Don't be afraid to open your mouth. 

The day after Christmas a special day for me as well. We got to go with Kelley Bartholomew's husband, Brad, to the Boise temple as he received his endowments. Normally we can only go to those that we taught and were baptized, but our mission president knew how much we had worked with him too to help him  get back into church. It reminded me a lot of when I first went to the temple and was truly a miracle day. His sister even shared that she never thought she'd see her brother in the temple. You just never know. We can't give up on those we love. Sister Archuleta got to come up too and so it was a fun little reunion. I am looking forward to going to Brad and Kelly's sealing in the Salt Lake temple next October! This is what the work is about. Bringing families to the temple!

I am so grateful for the gospel and I am grateful for the things I learn. As I prepare for the new year, I have been thinking about goals and what this life is all about. In Alma 34:32-33, we read about how this is our "time to prepare to meet God" and that we should "not procrastinate the day of our repentance". This truly is our time to prepare. Something that Sister Maness and I are working on, is setting a new years goal to better prepare ourselves spiritually. Whether it's having more personal prayers, studying your scriptures more diligently, attending the temple more often, or simply giving religion a shot and attending church more or for the first time. It is so important that we learn about our Heavenly Father and our Brother Jesus Christ and strengthen our relationship with them now. There is a quote that "the best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, and the second best time is now"! Don't feel like it's too late to start or do better. The better time is now. A man shared about how he's been training to run a marathon for about 4 years and still has yet to even sign up for one. Although he knows he has failed on his goal of doing the marathon, he knows he has not failed completely because he still trains and so he has gotten faster every year and is still more prepared than the year before. Stay positive and know that even if you don't "succeed" this year, you are still better off than not having trying at all! Isn't that true in life every day?? I love that. We are not perfect and yet we can try every day to achieve that perfection. Think about what you'd like to improve or start on this year. 

I love you all and hope you have an amazing and safe New Years!

Love,

Sister Wightman

photos 12/23/13

Sister Maness, Bethany and I playing out in the snow


At Miary's baptism with Sister Maness and Miary's son-in-law

Letter #39 12/23/13

Merry Christmas everyone! I hope you are all having a wonderful time with the festivities of the season and actually enjoying it :)

This week has been fun. Monday night, we went with a family (the Atwood's) caroling to some non-members and less-actives. Sister Atwood had made some treats and it was so fun to see these families faces light up as we sang Christmas music. It was pretty fun having little kids around with us too. Adds to the spirit ;)

We had a wonderful lesson with Mary Jo on Tuesday. The last couple of visits, we've had were definitely inspired. Both times, Sister Maness and I went in with a lesson plan on what we thought we could teach her, but as we sat down with Mary Jo and just listened to her and questions or comments she's had, we were guided by the Spirit to go in a different direction. One week we just simply read from the Book of Mormon with her and helped her how to relate the scriptures to her instead of just "reading". The next time, she said that really helped and has progressed her reading and understanding immensely. We felt prompted then to teach about prayer instead of doing more reading with her. It was definitely inspired as she shared how it was a struggle for her. Growing up Episcopalian, she already had prayer in her life, but feeling comfortable to do it out loud and with us is not in her comfort zone. She asked us to give her some goals and challenges (commitments) and so it was perfect that we could help her understand prayer and prepare herself to pray at the end of our next lesson. She came to church on Sunday, as she normally does, but even stayed for Gospel Principles and loved it! I think she is feeling more and more prepared and comfortable in her understanding of the gospel. 

Thursday, we had our Mission Christmas Devotional at the mission office. It was so much fun! We started off by watching "Ephraim's Rescue" which was a real treat since the only movies we're allowed to watch on the mission are ones the "church stamp" on it and that one doesn't (though it should haha). It was so good! Definitely teared up a lot. We then had a little talent show. I accompanied 2 sisters in some musical numbers (my companion and another sister). They sang an arrangement of "I Know That My Redeemer Lives" (efy version) and Sister Maness sang "Mary Did You Know". I set her up to that, but she has such a good voice, I told her she HAD to do it! Haha. I think she's looking for ways to get back at me. The other day she suggested to a girl that I could interpretive dance for her. Don't know where that one came from hahaha. I also accompanied our whole zone in "O Holy Night". It wasn't too bad. Haha. We then were spoiled with a feast of a roast and potatoes (of course), yummy salads and lots of desserts. It was a lot of fun. We ended with some words by our mission president and some gifts. One of them being a copy of the Book of Mormon and some marking pencils in which by May 2014 we are to finish and having different colored markings for the topics of "faith", "repentance", "baptism", "holy ghost" and "enduring to the end". I think that will be a neat study, just focusing on those principles and ordinances. I also took home lots of packages and letters, so thank you everyone for your Christmas love :)

Friday, it snowed. And I mean SNOWED. Around 3:30pm we were visiting wiht Kelley Bartholomew and she was telling us how it's supposed to snow between 5-11pm. Kid you not, 20 minutes later, we look outside and it is just a downpour of snow! We're all from California, so we ran out and took pictures. I'm sure people thought we looked silly. But hey, this is still kinda new/fun for us. We still went caroling with a couple that night and I think the snow helped because more people were home ;)

Saturday was Miary's baptism! It was beautiful. I was a little stressed as things were running a bit late (not in my control). One thing I am learning is how to be more patient and that I would be AWFUL as an event planner. When things don't go as planned, I get a little frenzied haha. BUT I continued to remind myself that it always works out, and it did. We had a great turnout, the entire Relief Society room was filled, and the Spirit was strong. The talks and the baptism were all done in Malagasy (as it was for Miary). Miary's daughter, Eva, and her granddaughter did a duet of "I Am A Child of God" and it was so sweet. At the end, Miary bore her testimony (as Eva translated) of how she has gotten to this point and the tender mercies that helped her even just days before to reassure that this is the right way. We have been starting to teach her English and helped her learn the last part of her testimony in English. However, she started to do it in Malagasy. We were like "nooooo" and her daughter said "english, Mom!". Haha. And she did. It was so awesome! Miary truly is a choice daughter of our Heavenly Father and I'm so excited for her to be sealed to her family in a year. She had her confirmation at church yesterday, which was also done in Malagasy, and I know no one minded that they couldn't understand because of the spirit. She has been so welcomed by the ward and it's incredible. As I pondered on this special woman, I thought of the scripture in Doctrine and Covenants 18:15-16 which says "15 And if it so be that you should labor all your days in crying repentance unto this people, and bring, save it be one asoul unto me, how great shall be your joy with him in the kingdom of my Father!
 16 And now, if your joy will be great with one soul that you have brought unto me into the akingdom of my Father, how great will be your bjoy if you should bring many csouls unto me! ". I know that on this mission, for me I am that "one soul" and those that I have taught and seen baptized are the "many souls". I am so grateful for my mission!

We had a great turnout at church yesterday. We joke that it's out "Superbowl" Sunday as lots of people like to come for the Christmas program. The music and messages were great and we had so many less-actives and non-members come. Even ones we didn't even think would come! 

I am looking forward to talking to my family on Wednesday. I will be spending Christmas day with about 5 families! But it will be fun. Sister Maness and I were talking about how even though we're away from our families for the holidays, it isn't hard because we are so welcomed by so many other families. What a blessing. 

As I've shared lots of Christmas messages these last few weeks, I've been able to reflect on the true meaning of Christmas. I have learned that not only is it about Christ's birth, but about His atonement and His second coming. There would be no significance to Bethlehem without Gethsemane. He came here not just to be born the Son of God, but to fulfill His purpose and provide a way for us to return Home again. I am so grateful for my Savior and His great sacrifice. I am grateful for this time on Earth that I have to learn about Him and what His life means for me personally. He is  the Son of God, "WonderfulCounsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace".

May you all have a Merry Christmas and feel the Savior's love as you spend time with your family. I love you all!

Love,

Sister Wightman

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

12/16/13 Photo


12/16/13 Letter #38

Hey Fam and friends!

Well, another eventful week. It all started Tuesday night. Tuesday I was at a leadership council and so Sister Maness went on exchanges with some other sisters as Sister Edstrom (my MTC comp) and I carpooled to the meeting. On our way back, we got a call from our companions that one of the sisters had fainted and that they were taking her to the hospital so we should meet them there. We luckily were just passing what we thought was the hospital that the ambulance was taking her to and so we waited, but turned out they took her to another one in Boise. We met up with our mission president there and ended up having to wait for about 4 hours until they released her. She has diabetes so we thought that was the cause, but not quite sure what really sparked it. Luckily the sister is okay, but definitely not how I anticipated spending the rest of the evening. It was a great time though to spend with our mission president and get to know him better. I keep telling Sister Maness..."welcome to the mission!" haha. She's had a great introduction: snow and hospitals. 

Thursday night, our investigator, Miary, had her baptismal interview by our mission president. It was such a spiritual experience. After he went through the interview, he brought Sister Maness and I into the room and we were all able to bear out testimonies to each other and many tears were shed. At the end of the visit, President challenged Miary to learn English because it would benefit and bless her as she became more involved with the ward and evening preparing for the temple in a year. Sister Maness decided to take advantage of this opportunity and so we're going to start meeting with her almost daily to teach her English. I'm so excited and so grateful for this woman's preparations and testimony that have gotten her to this point. She asked if weren't going to come by any more and we promised her that we would still come often and now we have even more reason t do so. Her baptism is this Saturdayand I am so excited for this unique experience as it will be in Malagasy and translated for us. 

With this Christmas season, we've had a lot of success getting to visit with less-active members and inviting people to activities. One of the events was a live Nativity at the Star Community Friendship barn. This was the second time the LDS and Friendship Church have done this together and it's a great opportunity for different religions and the community to come together in unity as we celebrate the birth of our Savior. Three of the elders were volunteered to be the "wisemen" and another was the angel, while the rest of us joined in the choir. It was a great turnout as we had about five 10 minutes performances. The only downfall was that our toes were frozen by the end of the night. But there was hot chocolate and it was worth it ;) I love the Christmas season! We've been listening to a lot of Josh Groban and David Archuleta Christmas music!

Our schedules are getting filled with more teaching opportunities. We are continuing to teach Mary Jo and she has accepted the challenge to attend all three hours of church instead of just Sacrament meeting. Her biggest struggle has been doubting that she knows enough (even though she attends church regularly and has LDS family so knows more than most of our investigators!) and so we know that by also attending Gospel Principles and Relief Society will help her to learn more and feel more confident. We also had a less-active member and his non-member family invite us over for Christmas dinner so we're REALLY excited about that!

We had Zone meeting this week and were encouraged on a few commitments. One is that our mission goal until January 7th is to find 500 new investigators (about 2 new investigators per week per companionship). We are praying more than ever for these opportunities and know that blessings will come. We are encouraged to have one companion prayer a day that is just on gratitude. I know that by simply expressing gratitude, it helps us to focus on what we have already been blessed with instead of constantly asking for more. 

At this time of year, as we reflect more on Christ, let us be grateful for what we have been given and for how He has blessed our lives. Reach out to your neighbors and loved ones more by letting them know you love them and doing an act of service for them. Whether it's delivering cookies or helping out in their yard. We all need to feel loved and wanted. Thank you for all your love that you have shown to me. I feel the prayers and thoughts every day. I know the miracles I see are not just chance, but a result of prayers and work. Let's lift each other's spirits as we reflect on the spirit of CHRISTmas. 

Have a wonderful week!

Love,
Sister Wightman

12/08/13 Photos

 Sister Maness and I walking out Saturday morning to fresh snow

the Star District posing with our Gingerbread temple 

 Sister Maness and I at the ward's Christmas breakfast with our Gingerbread temple

Brittany and her family with all the sister that taught her (Sister Houseman, Sister Chen, Sister Roundy, and Me)

12/08/13 Letter #37

Let it snow! Let it snow! Let it snow!

Ok, so I know all you back in California are complaining about the cold weather, but let me tell ya...out here it is REALLY cold. Yesterday we got into the car, it was -2 degrees and our back doors were frozen shut. Probably, not common to see your breath in the car. It's been chilly these last couple of weeks, but Friday night we had a good snow fall and woke up to about 4 1/2 inches of beautiful white powder. Sister Manes (my new companion) and I were loving it, even though it is a lot more work in the mornings. Ok, sorry I was just so excited about the snow, I'll get back to what's been happening this week. 

So awesome week! Tuesday I picked up my new companion, Sister Maness. She is from SOUTHERN California - Riverside county (Everyone keeps joking..."another Californian?). We get quite a few Cali missionaries in our mission (that and Arizona and Nevada). She is 22 and has also finished her schooling. We are very much alike in more ways than one (appearance, personality, reasons for out on a mission...). It was neat because as we were sitting waiting to hear our new companion assignments, she and I were sitting next to each other and we both had the thought pass through our minds that we hoped we would be companions. The poor thing got welcomed to Idaho with cold and snow, but she is a trooper. 

We began our week with another lesson with Miary. She is doing wonderful! We taught her about the gospel of Jesus Christ and she continued to soak everything in. At the end she asked us if she could bear her testimony to us. I love it! She has had so many thing prepare for this and it's incredible to see her strength. We moved her baptism to the following week because there are a lot of things happening with the holidays in the ward this weekend, so we wanted to make sure the day wasn't too stressful. This helps in a lot of ways actually. I have never had a baptism for someone who doesn't speak English so we just want to make sure we're getting everything done correctly. 

Every day this week, we have had some awesome visits and getting in a lot of doors that aren't always consistent! Heavenly Father is really blessing us with opportunities and I'm glad that Sister Maness is getting to exerience so much success. If she came 6 weeks ago, I don't know if I could have promised her the same, but Sister Archuleta and I were able to work hard and really build this area so that we can have so many opportunitites to teach and testify. 

Thursday night, the Atwood's took us out to dinner for my birthday celebration. We went to a restaurant called GoodWood and I had an awesome prime rib! I think the cow was still mooing, but gotta have it medium rare ;) It was really nice of them though to take me out and help me feel special. Later we tried to do some contacting, but no one seemed to be home (guess there were some school choir performances going on). We stopped by the Slade's who are an older couple in one of our wards. The lights weren't on so we were thinking we were out of luck there too, but we decided to still knock, and they were home. Sister Slade has had some back troubles and was recovering, but she was SO grateful that we stopped by. She said she had been feeling lonely and that no one would visit her. I was so grateful we listened to the spirit and were able to spend some time and share some spiritual messages with her. Our purpose as missionaries is to invite ALL to come unto Christ, whether  they are members or the church or not, active or not. We then stopped by Lonny Cooper's who we hadn't seen in a little while. We shared a mormon message called "Heavenly Father, Earthly Father" and talked about the important role he plays, even as a single parent. He expressed to us how he has had quite a few missionaries come and try to reactivate him, but how we sisters have made a difference with him and he thanked us for that. I feel that every day, I am realizing why I am here and how the Lord prepares people for us and we for them. 

Friday was another incredible day. We started it off teaching Miary again, this time about the commandments. After District Meeting, we made a few more visits (this is when the light snow fall started). That evening we went to see a couple less actives. One of them was Brenda Kiser, whom we had seen occasionally before. She is a rough-tough kinda gal that is a hard worker and sounds like Reba McIntire. She's awesome. She is divorced and her 13-year old son lives with her, Kent. He is a funny kid. He is REALLY into history, especially German history and loves his German action figures. He is not a member and with his father's influence, won't have permission until he's 18. He likes to talk and challenge you a lot. This was actually the first time I had met him, but had heard these things from his mom a lot before. It was kind of fun talking to him as he questioned the things we believe (asking for "proof" about the Book of Mormon and where these people descend from). It was a great opportunity for Sister Maness and I to seek guidance from the spirit and bear our testimonies. For the most part we explained that we didn't need the proof, but that it was something we had prayed about and as we studied the doctrine, had it confirmed that these things are true. I asked him if he believed in God. He said yes, and then I asked how did he know he is real. He said, "I don't know, I just do. I can sense His presence". I said it's the same for everything else we believe. We may not have physical proof to hold, but the faith that we have and the feelings confirmed to us can help us know of the truth. Even Brenda shared that she knew these things were true too. At the end after we shared a message and a prayer, he turned to us and said he actually agreed with everything we shared, but just wanted to make sure we believed what we said. We told him we wouldn't be out here if we didn't! He liked it and said we were welcomed back any time. Glad we got his approval ;) It was a great visit and night though!

Saturday was the snow day. We went to one of our ward's Christmas breakfasts. The night before we made a gingerbread house for the competition. We decided to be creative and made it into a temple (not anyone in particular), all frosted white with a Captain Moroni made of banana and grape runts spray-painted gold :) We showed up a little late so we didn't get judged, but everyone loved it. After, we went back and helped Brother Rowe shovel the snow in our driveway. Later, we got to go to my old area to see a baptism for Brittany, who Sister Chen and I had started teaching 6 months ago. She and her family have now moved to Nampa, but she wanted to be baptized where she had been taught and had first attended. The baptism was beautiful and it was so good to see her. I couldn't help  fight back the tears. Even though her progression wasn't as quick as others, to see her make this step and covenant was so beautiful. She asked me to share a few words and I testified about the hymn "I Believe in Christ". I am grateful for the variety of opportunities I am given. I know I will probably never see Brittany or her family again (now that they live out of the mission boundaries), but I am grateful to have been a part of their life. 

I am so grateful for this experience I have to serve the Lord. My faith and my testimony in this gospel and in my Savior have grown immensely. I am just hitting my half way mark and it has been wonderful to see the growth that I have experienced thus far. As I ponder on the next half of my mission, I look forward with excitement to see what more can happen. Since I have been out, the mission has split into 3 missions, the new mission has grown by 70% and I have had many training and leadership responsibilities. But most importantly, I have come closer to Christ and I have helped many others do the same. This gospel is true. I wouldn't be here doing this if it wasn't. Our Savior lives and He is with us every step of the way. We just have to reach out to Him. The Book of Mormon is true. It is keystone of our religion and holds the evidence that Jesus is the Christ and that God speaks to us today as He has revealed and restored the fullness of Christ's gospel through a prophet, Joseph Smith. I know that we continue to receive revelation from a modern prophet, Thomas S. Monson and that he leads and guides as a Church. I know that our Heavenly Father hears us and answers our prayers and that we too continue to receive personal revelation from Him. 

I love you all. Stay warm and stay grateful. 

Love,
Sister Wightman

Monday, December 9, 2013

11/18/13 Photos

 Our district at the Boise temple after our session

At Red Robin with the Simmons for Sister Archuleta's 20th birthday

Kelly and I making our pies (I still haven't baked mine yet...freezing it till Thanksgiving)

Taxidermy, of course this is common here in Idaho

Sister Archuleta and I posing in front of our CLEAN car after getting the "clean car"award at Zone Conference


12/02/13 photos

 Thanksgiving dinner #2 with the Atwood's

Thanksgiving dinner #3 with the Bartholomew's 

In front of our subdivision. So funny to live in the "Celestial Village"

 Proselyting on the bike (took a couple days to recover)

 Bowling with our Zone last p-day


Thanksgiving dinner #1 with the Miner's


12/02/13 Letter #36

Hello everyone!

Well, I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving. My day was stuffed (pun intended)! We had 3 dinners to attend. We started off with the Miners who have so much family come that they use the church to host everyone. It was a good sized turnout, which isn't really my cup-of-tea (I'm used to our smaller intimate family get-togethers), but still lots of fun. We played some basketball for a little bit, but I quit because my misses kept ricocheting and hitting a kid in the head and I felt bad and didn't want a law suit. Haha just kidding. But seriously. Then we went to the Atwoods. I LOVE this family. They had about 20 people there too, but it was at their home so more intimate. Our third dinner was at the Bartholomew's. We felt bad because we were so full by the time we got there, but still had enough room to have a little bit of everything and to try the apple pie I had made. Not bad for a first-timer. Maybe more sugar next time though haha. Although it can be hard being away from family during the holidays, it was wonderful to be welcomed in by so many families. I've already gotten requests for Christmas!

This has been an absolutely wonderful week. It started off Monday night as we had a lesson with Miary (from Madagascar). We taught her about the Restoration of the gospel of Jesus Christ and she soaked everything in. Her daughter translated for us and it was just a humbling experience. She explained that she had already prayed to know which church was true and felt her answers was the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. At the end, we invited her to be baptized on December 14th and she accepted! We were all in tears and her daughter shared that this was something she had been waiting for for a long time. We came back the next couple of mornings to teach her about the Plan of Salvation and she just wants us to keep coming back every day and learn more! This is what it's all about!

So we are allotted a certain amount of miles each month with our cars and with all the meetings and exchanges we've had, we ran out of our miles about a week early! We were blessed to have some members drive us around, but it was probably the worst week to run out because of Thanksgiving. Either people were out of town or they had family in town. So Wednesday, we ended up borrowing some bikes and getting around the traditional missionary way. May I just say that I have such an appreciation for the elders that have to ride their bikes. Our area is huge and there are so hills, that on a bike are more like mountains, so we stayed down in the "valley", but whooo! what a day! We still had fun though :)

Today is transfers and I am staying here in Star. This will be my longest time serving in one area, but I'm so glad. I wasn't ready to go. Things are just getting going and I still feel really connected to these people. Sister Archuleta was transferred down to Meridian South and is finishing training another sister. I'm grateful for the time I had to serve with her. I learned a lot. I will be picking up my brand new missionary tomorrow night, so don't know who it is yet. That's always the nail-biting part. But I know I will love her as I have with all my companions. It will be a different way of celebrating my birthday, but when you're on the Lord's errand, those things just don't seem as important or big of a deal. Some of the members though have asked to take me out later this week for a birthday celebration, so that will be nice. Can't believe it's the big 2-5. So old. Haha. 

I am excited for the new transfer and many exciting things that will happen these next couple of months. Thank you all for your continual love and support. It means the world to me. God bless you all and I hope you all feel the Spirit of CHRISTmas this season :)

Love,
Lauren 

11/25/13 Photos

 Dinner with some members (The Bruneels - family of 10!)
After a lesson with one of our investigators, Mary Jo (left to right: Sis. Archuleta, Mary Jo, Jessie, and me)

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11/25/13 Letter #35

It's the most wonderful time of the yeeeeeeaaaaar! Or at least it's getting there! haha. 

It is definitely winter here now as our car is iced over every morning, the pond in our backyard is almost ice-skating worthy, and we constantly are seeing our breath in the air. Grateful for pea coats and boots ;)

It has been a great week. We have begun teaching a sister from Madagascar. She only speaks Malagasy and her daughter and son-in-law are able to translate for us. She just moved here a month ago to live with her daughter and has a desire to be baptized. That's what we like to hear! She is so sweet and already has such a strong testimony. It is such a testimony builder to me and helps me to really slow down and appreciate the simple things. We were supposed to teach her last night, but had to reschedule for tonight and hope to extend a baptismal invitation. I love all these international experiences I am getting!

Wednesday, we got to take Kelly to the Family History center in Eagle and help her get started on doing her family's work. She is the first member of the Church in her family and has not had anyone do any genealogy work yet so she is starting from scratch, but the people at the FHC were so helpful and she found 3 family members! I have grown such an appreciation for family history work. Not only is it fun to find about our ancestors and where they come from, but to be able to do temple work for them, to link those bonds and give them the opportunity to accept the gospel so our families can be eternal. Familysearch.org is such a wonderful site and continues to show all the great resources our church has, holding one the largest genealogical database in the world! I'm excited to go back and help Kelly find more. My companion is still trying to figure out if she's indeed related to David Archuleta. 

Thursday I had a trainers meeting at the mission office that was for all senior companions. We discussed how we can be more effective in finding those "elect" that are prepared to receive the gospel. There was an emphasis on talking to everyone and using things like Family History to connect to people as most people want to know more about their family. It was definitely inspired. We then got to go on exchanges and I was with Sister Houseman, back in my last area in Meridian! I guess my work is just not finished there cuz they keep sending me back haha. It was so fun though to work with Sister Houseman (she was companions with Sister Chen after I was) and to see people I had worked with before. We tried applying the things we had been taught, but had pretty much no success during the day as everyone wasn't at home. I got to see Erika again and although I keep in touch with her weekly through email, it was great to see her face and hear how she is doing as she continues to progress in the gospel. That night, we had the privilege of having our mission president's wife, Sister Winder, go out with us. We contacted a couple of families. The first were the Johnson's, who claim they're active, but don't go to church. The husband is a lieutenant and his wife is a nurse, so I'm sure their crazy schedules play a factor. It was perfect timing as they were packing up to head down to Utah for Thanksgiving week. They took the time though to have us come in and get to know them, hear Brother Johnson's conversion story and then share a message. As we left, Brother Johnson shook my hand and thanked us for our visit and message as it set the tune for their trip. That's the first time missionaries have been able to make full contact in at least 6 months with that family. We then went to see the Curries who always made us fresh homemade bread. It was great to see them again and to see how much their son has improved as he is recovering from some health issues. We talked about the Prodigal son and discussed the different views, from the son who left and the son who stayed and remained obedient. Although we may go on different paths, Heavenly Father continues to bless us and be there for us, whether we've always had it or we are coming back to it. I was so grateful to have Sister Winder with us. I thought it might be scary/more pressure, but she was just another part of our companionship. 

Saturday, I got to teach Sister Archuleta the things that I had learned in the training, and then we set goals and took it to action. We decided we were going to talk to everyone we saw. It can be hard, being in a car, but we wanted to allow for extra time so if we saw someone we could pull over and talk to them. We have actually been short on our miles for our car so we had Kelly drive us around. It was fun for her to get to see what we do. It was amazing. Everyone we tried to see, we saw! And we even had an opportunity to talk to someone that wasn't part of our planned contacting. He was a neighbor of a sister we were trying to visit and was unloading his car full of groceries. We offered to help and as we walked with him, he began to share about his beliefs and how we have different religious views. I was a little nervous as the conversation began (I'm grateful we're not really a tracting mission because these situations are not my favorite) and I didn't want it to become a competition. He asked for clarification on what we believed about the Godhead and how the Atonement works and where we will go after this life. We were able to bear our testimony of the Plan of Salvation and share some scriptures in the Bible that showed why we believed these things. He wasn't convinced, but I knew that as long as I was bearing my testimony, I was doing my part and he had his agency to take or leave it. In the end, he appreciated our help in taking in the groceries and we went on our way. Successful? Some may say no, but I know that I was able to at least testify of what I knew was true :) We had the most success that day than we've had probably since we've been serving in this area (almost 3 months)!

Yesterday, we got to perform our musical number again in the other ward and also in the ward choir. It is so fun to use our musical talents. In the Beacon Light ward there was a guy who was giving his mission homecoming talk. He had just gotten back from Brazil. He did a great job, but then at the end, he did something unexpected. He had Sister Archuleta and I go up to the podium with him and talked to the congregation about what our responsibilities are and we can't do it on our own, and then he had the whole congregation stand up and said that we are all part of the God's Army and that we are all a part of this work. It was so powerful! I think everyone was moved.

Transfers are coming up this next week, and although I am nervous to hear what happens, I'm also at peace that I will be where the Lord needs me. I don't think I'm done here in Star, but I'm grateful for all the experiences I've had here and the people I've met. I know I've made a difference as I've shared my testimony and served the people here. This is a GREAT area! 

Thank you for all your love. I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving and enjoy these times with your family and loved ones!

Love,
Sister Wightman